Katelyn Harper | Pleasure & Self Love Coach

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Is “letting yourself go” really such a bad thing?

“I want to let myself go.” Me to me, just on the brink of my self love journey.
The phrase “letting yourself go” is often used against women & softies to shame us out of our desire to be free.
But I have an alternate narrative that I think is more fitting: let yourself go from the idea that you need to be anything other than everything you already are.


Letting yourself go >>> holding yourself in.

So let yourself exhale.
Let yourself spread out.
Let yourself BE.
You are exactly the person you were always meant to be already.
As is.
Right now.

I’m not usually blogging on Sundays, but as we’re drawing closer to the end of the calendar year, I want to make sure I’m offering slowness & intentionality to your Internet consumption.
You’re going to be seeing a surge of “new year, new me” content on all social media platforms. Lots of really aesthetic & enticing posts about dieting, working out, and “finally getting your life together” productivity. Unless this is your soul’s genuine calling, I hope you’ll gently tune it out.

If you want to unsubscribe from the belief that you need to change yourself in order to be the person you were meant to, join me for private coaching in 2023. My coaching is intentional, slow, and soft. I am not a “kick your ass” coach, I’m a “let’s unpack that story” kind of coach. If you’ve been seeing my posts and getting curious, now just might be your perfect time.