Katelyn Harper | Pleasure & Self Love Coach

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I got two DMs about s3x this morning…

You might think that because I’m a pleasure coach, my whole life is full of seggsy talk. People DM me connnnstantly about seggs. Which, I’m fine with honestly. I welcome it! 😆 But it isn’t the full picture of what I do as a Pleasure Coach.

Because for some reason, when we hear ✨pleasure✨ ALL we think is s3xual pleasure. But honestly? That’s just the tip of the iceberg, pun very much intended.

The REAL pleasure work is surrounding why you can’t receive simple pleasures. Why you breeze past them as if they don’t exist. Why you are so averse to letting the little things fill you up.

I don’t JUST want to talk about your sexual pleasure, I want to talk about why you chug your morning coffee without even tasting it. Why you no longer feel the softness of your favorite sweater on your skin. Why you can’t pause on the sidewalk and tip your face up toward the sunshine and let the warmth wash over you in waves.

THAT’S the real pleasure work.

There is something so uncomfortable about facing our own pleasure. If you open to pleasure, you must also open to pain. But baby girl, pain is inevitable whether you are open to it or not. Pleasure is an option I dearly hope you do.
Pain, pleasure… They’re all just thoughts in the end, anyway. (And quite a few of us like both at the same time…)

So you don’t have to open up. You don’t have to stay present. You don’t have to feel.

But it is SO rewarding to do so, trust me. Babes, you’re missing out on life if you don’t. DM me on Instagram @littlewildhomebody or email me at coachwithkatelyn@gmail.com already and we can get started on turning allllll your systems back ✨on✨